I won't lie.....
2019 has been by far the worst year of my life!
On March 9, 2019 I lost my LOVE
....the peas to my carrots,
the ying to my yang
...the one who found something in me I could not find
....the peas to my carrots,
the ying to my yang
...the one who found something in me I could not find
....my BABY LOVE!
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| one of my favorite pictures of us... |
He fought a tough fight for 5 years.....the Dr threw everything she had at him and hurt him bad! But he got back up time and time again. We knew eventually the Mantle Cell would win. I called it our version of the Whack~A~Mole game. He would get better then we would just wait for IT to rear it's ugly head....his gremlin.
He was the strongest, most stubborn man I have ever known. Every day...he got up and went to work, regardless of how he felt ....in sweltering heat and frigid cold. He worked EVERY DAY, right up to the end. He taught me to "put on my big girl panties" wipe away my tears and MOVE ONWARD.
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| the finished piece |
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| my motto |
1. He wouldn't die alone.
2. I wouldn't fight with his son.
3. I'd be OK
Little did I know how HARD it would be to keep my WORD!
I stayed by his side during his hardest battle, the one we both knew he COULDN'T win! I was there as he took his last breath, holding his cold hand and giving his cold lips one last kiss....5:34 am ......and then I was ALONE!
Little did I know when I made the second promise that the son who had been my "friend" would turn on me, saying "IT'S ALL MINE"!
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| ....i promised i'd be OK! |
This has been a TOUGH one to walk out! Trying to keep my heart from becoming hard and HATING Gary for allowing THIS to happen. ....he had PROMISED me! It was hard enough GRIEVING the lose of the man I LOVE, but to also hunt for an apartment, get a car.....pack and leave the place I had worked SO HARD to make our home. At times, life has felt ALMOST unliveable. The weight of each day....just CRUSHING! People would say, you're so STRONG. My response....NAH, i just keep waking up every morning, so i HAVE NO CHOICE!
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| i had to break through the walls i was starting to build.... |
Bringing me to today. THANKS for the prayers, WORDS of encouragement and HUGZ from many a folk! I am HAPPY TO REPORT, I have purchased a car AND found an apartment! Now to begin the process of moving FORWARD. Hence, my current creation.
I REALLY struggled and struggled with it, tearing it apart many a time. Letting it sit for days on end, pondering my next move. Each time getting a little bit closer to what I had envisioned. Sometimes not even really knowing what I wanted but with the help of friends, verbalizing what I couldn't see in my head, I found my path. The finishing touch being a part of the bracelet I wore for 5 years....No One FIGHTS Alone! It somehow ended up on top of my piece and I KNEW it was meant to be. This piece is VERY symbolic of what I have gone through in these last three months ....I knew it was meant to be even through the struggle! And I LOVE IT!
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| ....i have wings! |
.....i want to FLY.
Gary J. Hale
I shall miss you every day for the rest of my life!
....the part of me, that's YOU, will NEVER DIE!
TODAY is my 56th birthday....
and as I sit here and reflect on my life
and how hard this journey has been...
I'd do it ALL OVER AGAIN!
Products Used
A Vintage Girl
Dina Wakely Acrylic Paint
Eggplant
Marine
Buff
Medieval
Penny
Marine
Buff
Medieval
Penny
The Crafter's WorkshopWhite Gesso
Grecian Gold Modeling Paste
